When a couple decides they want to have a baby, often they underestimate how long the process can actually take. Some people are lucky and conceive on the first or second try…while other couples have to try for months and months and sometimes even years. It can turn into a very stressful and depressing time in a couples lives. Often times the woman is looked at as the one who is the cause of the problem…when in actuality is may not be her at all, but her partner that is the problem. Ladies, if you and your husband have been trying to have a baby for a long time without any success, it is worth having your partner checked for everything from sperm count to sperm potency. You may be surprised at what you find out and how easy of a problem it may be to fix.